As women, we have a tendency to water one another down. Maybe it makes us feel good or look better than the next woman. At least that’s what you may think. Or maybe we just don’t know how to tell that women how we admire her. Have you ever admired a woman who has been through changes in her life? Or have you made up in your mind that she is just messed up? Before you make this mistake, take a close look. A woman who has endured the most unusual life is someone of wisdom. Someone who has been chosen my God to go through.

Think of all the great women in the Bible, Mary Magdalene and Esther to name a few. Mary was a prostitute. A very uneasy woman. But by the time God was done with her, she was His closest follower. Esther was unfortunate in marrying an abusive man. By the time God was done with her, she married one of the wealthiest men in the land.

Have you ever admired the strength of a single mother? Or have you made up your mind that it’s too bad she had children on her own? A single mother knows NO BOUNDS when it comes to her children. She is strong and durable. Single mothers are strong, not because she has to be, but because it comes natural for her to protect the extensions of her very being. Her love for her children is likened to that of fuel to a vehicle. Most mothers keep their tanks full because they understand if it runs low you could jeopardize the vehicle and have problems in the long run. Other women only fill it when it is needed. Those are the cars that more than likely, break down.

Have you ever wondered why some women are not approachable? Or have you made up your mind that she is just mean? A quiet woman is a smart woman. She is valuable. She doesn’t go off half-cocked and she won’t be the one to argue with you over nothing. She just may even let you go on in your “setting her straight” and politely back out without a fight. She doesn’t let many into her world. After all, she has probably been through the fire and had to rebuild. So why let just anyone in? This is usually the woman that only gives “small talk” and knows her place, which is away from all the unnecessary things in life.